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Whats It Like Being In A Relationship With A Chronic Marijuana Smoker?

17 April 2023 Default

It seems that we can only go to events where people will be smoking and can only hang out with people that like to get stoned. She does not understand how this makes me feel. She seems to smoke more and more and I can’t remember the last day that she didn’t smoke. I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years with someone who’s addicted to weed. At first, I thought he did it only for fun sometimes and didn’t pay any attention… anyway, the time came by and things got worst. I stayed though, thinking I could help maybe.

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Then he developed contempt towards me and used an argument we had as an excuse to buy weed. At first, he was an occasional smoker, consuming it every couple of months only with a few of his friends that are partaking in the drug. To be honest, I didn’t mind it back then, since it was so infrequent and I figured I would be a hypocrite because at parties I drink alcohol, so why he wouldn’t be able to do his opiate of choice. Few months ago, his consuming increased.

Although Plenty of Fish wasn’t created with cannabis in mind, it was built in a broad way so that singles have developed a category for it based on their interests. I feel sad and well, it’s a shame because he’s losing his life, but believe me, I’ve tried hard to support him, with therapy, support groups, friends, activities, there’s nothing else I can do. I mean, 3 years… that’s like too much. So I am still in the house but I’m making plans to get my own home. I’m 51 years old I’m not a drug taker I’ve never been a drug taker and I don’t want to live with one. All my children couldn’t live with him either and moved out because of his behaviour.

I did not believe that what I was doing was harmless. I knew I was hurting myself and my children; I just did not know what else to do. I completely stopped smoking for my ex gf when she told me it bothered her for the last 3 years as soon as we split up bought me an ounce.. As marijuana is still illegal in most places, your partner could find themselves in trouble if they are caught with large amounts of it. It’s important to be aware of the laws where you live and take steps to ensure your partner stays on the right side of them. Smoking weed in the wrong place or state can land you in jail, even if you have a medical marijuana card.

I can imagine what it would be like living with him. He also smokes with the brothers and mates and made a comment like am i suppose to tell me bros no my mrs wont let me. Well no but surely he can see that its affecting us but has made it clear it wont change. I need to finally be selfish and think about myself and my future. Im 33 not getting younger and want kids. I knew my girlfriend used to smoke pot at a young age.

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Mostly because I’ve watched addiction ruin entire families. I have no problem with people that do, but im also NOT romantically involved with those people. Even if he has a lot of issues, I still have a huge place in my heart for him. I love him so dearly and care for him with almost every morsel in my body.

He doesn’t seek help for his addictions. That is only a small part of the story. Ariel, thank you so much for sharing your story. My situation is IDENTICAL and I have struggled greatly, beating myself up for not being ‘accepting enough’ or ‘close minded’. It took me a long time to realize that whatever the basis for your feelings of simply just not feeling ok with it, how your feel is completely ok.

Would you date someone who smokes weed and you dont?

Since this hurt me extremely bad, I remember the slightest detail from both times she smoked it. From the class she had the first time she smoked it, to what beach she was at with her sister the second time she smoked it. I’ve been trying really hard, and looking for God for guidance but nothing is helping.

As soon into my relationship as 2 months I would come over to my boyfriend or him to me and be met by a short temper or out-of-character low mood. Being right at the start of a relationship and overcome by infatuation this registers to the non-smoker as something very strange. I had been looking forward to seeing him all day, maybe for days and seemingly so had he. But still I met up with a person who was short or slightly harsh in the tone. A bit closed off and lacking enthusiasm or excitement.

I want to feel safe and free in my own home. I don’t want to have this constraint of worry. And whether its ridiculous , or not, its how I feel. It’s the same reason I do not choose to hang around a group of people who’s main source of entertainment is getting wasted-drunk on Friday nights.

I think it is the weed that’s made her so selfish and very quick to anger. A few days ago she lied to me about something trivial which she used to do when I first met her and I had asked not to lie . I had kept my distance from her in the past and either one of us would eventually get https://www.loveconnectionreviews.com/ in touch. I never felt like I had a say in what he did, and knew it was something that if we were going to be in a relationship, wouldn’t stop. We went to Europe for a month where he couldn’t snoke. Also, when we got back he needed to find a job and we started semester at a university.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half now, and have dealt with my intense discomfort over his smoking. It started half a year in, because up until that point he had hid from me. Since then, it’s introduced tension into our relationship. I am so relieved to know I am not alone. Let me start by saying I am a people pleaser, so it has been really difficult for me to follow what I want and not compromise. I have been in my relationship for 6 years now, 1year living together.

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